Nothing matters until you make it matter, good or bad. It can be so easy to spiral and focus your energy on things that are frustrating, upsetting, or just generally keeping you down. On the flip side, if you want to prioritize something, you have to be super intentional about that and make sure that you’re giving it the attention that it deserves. I’m trying to become a master of focusing my time and energy where it serves me best, enjoying my downtime, and being present with the people that I love. I’ll always be a work in progress, but the more that I can let things go and hone in on what matters, the more I can live in alignment and reach my goals. 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 0:29 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy.

( 2:29 ) Lori says, “What I'm focusing on right now is just trying to master and get good at understanding that nothing matters, unless you make it matter.”

( 3:28 ) Lori lists ways that she flips her energy and attention when she’s feeling overwhelmed.

( 4:38 ) Lori says, “Sometimes we aren't making the things that we want to matter in our life matter enough by not focusing on them.”

( 5:54 ) Lori says, “Once you've done all that you can about the negative, if you can't do it anymore, now it's time to switch over.”

( 7:16 ) Lori asks listeners to leave a 5-star review.