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924. How To Turn Fear Into Fuel For Your Dreams!

We all have fears, but how can you use them to propel you forward instead of hold you back? All you have to do is choose which fear you’re going to feed and let that be the fuel that motivates you to achieve your big goals. 

Chris and I discuss what fears really drive us, and how we use that to stay focused without letting it overwhelm us. We feel so fortunate to live the life that we do now and show up for our friends and family in ways that we never could’ve dreamed of, and the thought of all that going away is enough to kick us into high gear. What’s the thing that keeps you going when you feel like you can’t anymore? Always remember that and use it to your advantage. 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 0:26 ) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy.

( 0:43 ) Lori asks Chris, “What is the thing that really drives you and keeps you motivated? And how do you not only stay motivated and really use it and tap into it and think about it, but how do you also not let it take over and control you?”

( 3:21) Chris asks Lori, “What would you say motivates you?”

( 5:11 ) Chris says, “It’s the fear of not being able to have things that makes me take action.”

( 7:01 ) Lori asks listeners, “Can you get over your kind of petty fear when other people would give anything to be in your position?”

( 8:34 ) Chris says, “By knowing oneself, and by knowing what all your fears are, then you can choose which fear you want to feed.”

( 10:14 ) Lori says, “I’m also afraid of not growing, because I know what that feels like.”

( 11:20 ) Lori asks listeners to share what their positive fears are with them on Instagram. 

1074. How To Win The Mini Fights So You Can Win Your Day

True long-term happiness stems from being fulfilled in your personal growth and mastering the ability to overcome challenges. Today, I highlight the importance of viewing your daily challenges as opportunities for personal growth, transformation, and stepping stones toward becoming the person you aspire to be. I encourage you to lean into the discomfort, find joy in the battles, and take meaningful action in everything you do!

 

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Follow me: @loriharder

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Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

 

Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

(0:23) Welcome back to another episode of Earn Your Happy. 

(1:57) Lori shares her goals with launching her new company. 

(5:06) Lori talks about winning the daily battles. 

(10:14) Lori highlights the factors that make long-term happiness. 

1073. What We’re Currently Learning And Working On

Chris and I are total road-trippers and love to tune in to podcasts during our drives. On our recent trip to the lake house we listened to some great podcasts, and today, we’re sharing our takeaways with you! We learned about using meditation as a strategy session, embodying authenticity while maintaining a professional appearance, and striving for consistency and abundance in your service. Just as you tune in to us every week for motivation, we love sharing our favorite “Holy Crap!” moments from our favorite podcasts.


CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

 

CONNECT WITH CHRIS

Follow Chris: @chriswharder

Visit Chris’ Website: https://chrisharder.me 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

(0:21) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy. 

(4:15) Chris and Lori highlight takeaways from current podcasts they’ve listened to.

(7:10) Chris talks about a meditation technique he’s planning on implementing. 

(8:50) Chris and Lori unpack an experience at one of their favorite LA restaurants.