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989. We’re Breaking Down What Makes People Successful

The common thread between all of the most successful business leaders is that they all know what their talents are and they don’t let their ego get in the way of finding people who can fill in the gaps. We’re sharing an exercise that you can do to understand exactly what your zone of genius is and get more visibility into your blindspots. I describe what I think Chris’s strengths are when it comes to networking and building a business, and he highlights what he notices in my skill set as well. 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

(0:33) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy. Today, Chris and Lori are talking about what makes them successful. 

(2:20) Chris says, “The key is when people learn what they’re good at and play to their strengths, and then mitigate what they’re not good at, that’s when they succeed.”

(4:37) Chris asks Lori, “What traits do you think have made me successful?”

(8:02) Chris lists out the traits that make Lori successful. 

(11:43) Chris asks Lori, “Where does that knowing what consumers want come from?”

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988. How Reducing The Stigma Of Mental Health Can Save Lives With Karena Dawn, Founder Of The Big Silence

I recently caught up with my friend Karena Dawn to talk about the amazing work she’s doing in the mental health space and what she’s learned in her own healing journey. 

Karena and I discuss her debut memoir The Big Silence: A Daughter’s Memoir of Mental Illness and Healing, which is a deeply moving story of her journey from crisis, addiction, and depression to a life of hope and happiness. In our conversation, she shares her advice for anyone who is struggling with their mental health right now and highlights some supportive solutions. 

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Follow Karena: @karenadawn 

Order your copy of Karena’s book: The Big Silence: A Daughter’s Memoir of Mental Illness and Healing

Learn more about Karena’s charity, The Big Silence: thebigsilence.com 

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Follow me: @loriharder

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EPISODE TIMELINE

(0:48) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy. Today, Lori is joined by Karena Dawn. 

(4:09) Lori asks Karena, “What was going on in your life right before writing the book? Why did this conversation have to come out right now for you?”

(6:19) Lori asks Karena, “Where do you think this stigma comes from? And what is one of the things that people can do?” 

(9:02) Lori asks Karena, “When seeking help, are there particular people that we should aim to go towards? What were you finding yourself doing because you weren’t talking?”

(12:25) Karena asks Lori, “What is it like where you’re at with your family?”

(14:51) Lori shouts out the sponsor of today’s show, Issuu. 

(17:16) Lori asks Karena, “Tell me about when you were growing up, just your experience of kind of thinking that you had to hold it in. What were some of the ways that that was manifesting in your life?”

(21:43) Lori asks Karena, “Did you have a realization with the all or nothing mentality? Were you that way as well? What did that journey look like for you?”

(26:45) Lori asks Karena, “How do you go back to the challenging times in and dig for the gold and find that gift?”

(27:57) Lori asks Karena, “Where can we get your book and what’s the best way to connect with you and The Big Silence Foundation?”

(28:41) Lori asks Karena, “What’s your Instagram handle?”

987. Introverts…This Is Going To Rock Your World

I’ve always had mixed emotions about the ‘introvert’ and ‘extrovert’ labels. I love being around my people, but I used to always feel the need to recharge after big social events. What I’ve discovered is that I was just an extreme people-pleaser who didn’t uphold my boundaries or manage my energy. In this episode, I share how I handle social situations now to make sure that I’m not leaving them feeling anxious and drained. 

If you identify as an introvert, DM me over on Instagram at @loriharder and let me know if this resonates with you! Plus, tell me how you’re going to challenge yourself at your next social event!

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

(0:30) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy. Today, Lori is sharing her theory about introverts. 

(3:03) Lori says, “I want to challenge you and say that I don’t think you need as much time as you think you do, alone and away from people.”

(4:43) Lori talks about having poor judgment of people and places.

(6:51) Lori says, “Something that has changed for me is my happiness, my anxiety, my depression, and my mental health. And the only thing that has changed is that I have gotten more social.”

(9:49) Lori talks about upholding your boundaries. 

(13:12) Lori discusses what it means to have poor energy management.  

(17:58) Lori asks listeners to DM her @loriharder and let her know if this idea resonates with them and how they’re going to challenge themselves at their next social event.