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Episode 133: Five Ways to be POSITIVE Around NEGATIVE People

Confession time. Not that long ago, there was a lot of negativity in my life. For some of you this may be hard to believe, but it’s true. I had a ton of toxic friends/relationships in my life and looking back now, I can’t believe I put up with that negativity as long as I did. Some of it was because I failed to set boundaries. Another part was that I tended to take on other people’s “stuff” and carry it as my own. I soon learned, however, that

“You can only control what you can control – and that is YOU.”

I knew that for the sake of my own happiness, I needed to grab the reins and take charge.
Here are the five things that help set me on the path to positivity:

1. Know what you can control.

2. Ask yourself, “What is the most beneficial reaction I can have for myself (while still being compassionate).

3. Be compassionate.

4. {Not for the weak.} Call the negative person out.

5. Understand that the person (or your situation) may not change.

Does practicing all five of these things guarantee zero negativity in your life? Not by a long shot – there’s always going to be some amount of negativity in your life. It’s on the street, it’s on the Internet and sometimes, there are people in our lives that we can’t completely cut ties with. If it’s important to you and your happiness, you must start to focus your free time in a more positive place.

“If you want to change, you will. If you don’t, you won’t.”

Go to the places that will bring you joy. Spend time with the people who “get” you. And DO the things that help lift you up. Some days will be more difficult than others, but it’s up to you to keep your head and heart in a positive place.

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Negativity
  • Positivity
  • Boundaries
  • Control
  • Change
  • Community
  • Tribe

Resources

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Episode 131: Fear Is NORMAL: Here’s How to NOT Let It STOP YOU

“It’s all about stepping in, saying yes and all of the things that come along with saying yes.”

Today I’m sharing with you where I’m at with both life and business ventures because chances are you’re going through (or have gone through) similar circumstances.

This quickie is a short and direct way to help you bust through your fears, no matter how big or small yours may be at the moment.

“Sometimes you have to up level yourself and become a completely different version of yourself to accomplish your goals.”

Some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten (and given) is to have full-time faith in your higher power – whatever that looks like for you.

“I never step into anything without saying a prayer. It’s about asking and knowing you are supported.”

In This Episode You Will Hear About:

  • Saying yes
  • Fear
  • Outcome
  • Accomplishment
  • Goals
  • Knowing your worth
  • Energy
  • Serving others
  • Expanding
  • Your calling
  • Community
  • Tribe

Resources:

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You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

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Episode 119: The RECIPE for SUCCESS

“There is an exact recipe for everything. Whether it’s your body, success, creating a business etc…” -Tony Robbins

Today we are all chefs on the Earn Your Happy podcast! Looking for the recipe to all of the above?! Yeah…ME TOO!

Have you ever heard the saying “too many cooks in the kitchen?” Not this time, baby! I’m here to invite all you cooks out there to muster up the most beautiful life recipe possible.

Let’s take cupcakes (as a metaphor) for example. Of course the quality of ingredients matters, but that’s also a learning lesson. Give and take, trial and error. I’m most concerned about the intensity you’re baking them at!

“What is the temperature you’re baking at? We can all make cupcakes, but what is the enthusiasm level in which you are selling them at? If you aren’t sharing with the world how rad your cupcakes are, how well would your bake sale go?!”

“People need what you have. They want to be fed these cupcakes!”

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • The Bliss Habit e-course
  • Blocks in Life
  • Fears
  • Perseverance
  • Connections
  • Tribes
  • Willingness
  • Quality

Resources:

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