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1021. Kaitlyn Bristowe On How To Handle Comparison

Reality TV star and entrepreneur Kaitlyn Bristowe and I go deep on topics like healing your inner child, navigating female friendships, and embracing getting older in a world that’s obsessed with youth.

In our conversation, Kaitlyn opens up about her journey leading up to her time on The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, including the devastating heartbreak that changed her life. We talk about the power of forgiveness and how to develop a more resilient mindset. Plus, Kaitlyn shares how she cultivates self-love and continues to prioritize her relationship with herself.

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EPISODE TIMELINE

(0:24 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy. Today, Lori is joined by Kaitlyn Bristowe. 

(3:15) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “Where did the idea for Off The Vine come from? And did you always know that you wanted to do this?”

(6:23) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “What were you like when you were a little girl?”

(8:53) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “How did you put yourself into those reality TV situations? And did you have moments where you just got completely caught up and out of your mind? And how did you come back to a place of feeling centered?”

(13:14) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “When you decided to do therapy, what is something that you came out the other side with that you’re like, wow, I am so so proud of myself for this and I love this about me?”

(14:24) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “What was the relationship with yourself like before therapy?” 

(17:04) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “What is a lesson around romantic relationships that you wish other people knew before they get into it?”

(25:05) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “I would love to hear kind of how you’ve navigated like female relationships. Have you ever struggled with it? Or is it always something that’s been easy for you?”

(23:10) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “Where did you learn how to set boundaries?”

(27:45) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “When you were doing inner-child work, what was it that the younger you needed to hear? What was she missing? And who did she need to hear it from?”

(31:04) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “How do you handle comparison?”

(33:05) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “You had talked about aging not being scary, no coincidences, and forgiveness. Let’s see if we can touch on them.”

(37:10) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “Let’s talk about no coincidences.”

(40:22) Lori asks Kaitlyn, “Where can people find and follow you?”

1020. Don’t Wait, Create Your Opportunity Now!

How can you start going after your big goals on a smaller scale? I spent so many years on the sidelines waiting for the perfect opportunity to come along, but I realized it’s better to just get out there and create what you wish existed. If it’s speaking on stages, writing a book, hosting events 一 whatever it is that lights you up, there are so many ways that you can start living out your dreams right now.

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EPISODE TIMELINE

(0:22) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy.

(1:18) Text POWER to 310-496-8363 to get Chris and Lori’s Power 9 template. 

(3:58) Lori talks about how you can start making progress toward your big goals by achieving them on a smaller scale.  

(4:24) Lori reflects on how she and Lindsey reimagined the live podcast sessions.  

(7:53) Lori says, “Everything that has been good in my life has not been this big grand thing.” 

(9:23) Lori talks about how she’s learned to minimize the risk and reduce the barriers for taking action.  

1019. Katrina And Brian Scott On The Highs and Lows

Our friends Katrina and Brian Scott join us on this special He Said She Said episode! We look back on our not-so-meet-cute story, major turning points in our relationship, and open up about our fertility journey. This conversation really has us reflecting on the moments that have made us and what keeps us together during challenging times. Katrina and Brian share some of the ups and downs of their 20+ year relationship and the lessons they’ve learned along the way, too.

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EPISODE TIMELINE

(0:24) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy. Today, Chris and Lori are joined by Katrina and Brian Scott 

(3:33) Katrina asks Lori, “Tell everyone how you met.” 

(11:32) Chris shares what’s gotten him and Lori through challenging times. 

(19:06) Chris emphasizes the importance of matching your actions with your promises. 

(26:18) Katrina asks Chris, “How did you sit with your shame? And how did you come out of it?” 

(29:11) Chris and Lori talk about their introduction to personal development. 

(32:58) Lori talks about how her friendships have grown from being vulnerable and allowing herself to be supported by other people.  

(37:49) Lori and Chris share how Katrina and Brian set the bar for other couples.  

(43:37) Chris and Lori highlight examples of how a bold leap of faith can pay off. 

(50:52) Katrina asks Lori, “Can you share your Power 9 routine with Brian?” 

(54:31) Katrina asks Lori, “I’d love to talk to you guys a little bit about your fertility journey.”