Menu

You’re NOT Burned Out, You’re Being Refined

If the old tactics aren’t working anymore, it doesn’t mean you’re broken, it means you’re aware, and awareness is power. In this episode, I break down why this season isn’t asking you to quit, it’s asking you to get more intentional. Success is seasonal, effort isn’t always the answer, and when things feel harder than they used to, it may be feedback, not failure. I also share an exercise to turn how you want to feel in 2026 into an actual strategy so your calendar, energy, and actions support the life you’re building next.

 

In this episode you will learn:

  • Why feeling tired doesn’t mean you’re weak or burned out.
  • How refinement seasons sharpen faith, skills, and clarity.
  • The difference between your zone of genius and your zone of competency.
  • Why effort stops working when alignment is missing.
  • An exercise to turn emotions into a strategy for 2026.

 

RESOURCES

Join the Mentor Collective Waitlist HERE!

Apply for the VIP Weekend Mastermind HERE!

Join the Audacity Challenge HERE!

Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE!

Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE!

Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES – Operation: Rekindle This B*tch

Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off!

 

FOLLOW

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow glōci: @getgloci

Our Biggest Lessons on Failure, Expansion, & Building Rooms That Change Everything

Growth doesn’t come from getting it right every time. It comes from staying in the game when things go wrong. In this Best of 2025 He Said She Said episode, Chris and I are bringing together three conversations that shaped us the most this year. We’re talking about the moments that tested us, the risks that stretched us, and the rooms that changed how we think, lead, and live. We share stories behind our most cringe-worthy business moments, why your comeback rate matters more than perfection, what Ferrari, Pagani, and Europe taught us about risk and legacy, and how building the right mastermind can collapse timelines faster than anything else we’ve ever done. Tune in for the mindset shifts you need to recover faster and choose better rooms.

 

In this episode you will learn:

00:00 Why your comeback rate matters more than avoiding mistakes.

04:15 The Chris fit that accidentally made it into a paid course.

10:15 My nightmare interview where I called Natalie Ellis the wrong name.

12:45 The time Chris thought he was muting coughs, but the recording caught it all.

20:30 The priceless gift of Chris’s Italy trip with his brother.

25:30 Proof that your business can grow without you hovering.

33:30  The Ferrari story that reframes failure and legacy.

38:00 Why staying trapped in “good” keeps you from “great”.

43:45 Why staying rooted and letting your partner chase their experiences matters.

46:45 How honoring different seasons strengthens your relationship.

50:00 How do you help your mastermind members stay engaged and consistent?

57:30 How to design programs that deliver real, lasting results.

01:01:00 Why masterminds thrive when you create opportunities for leadership.

 

RESOURCES

Join the Mentor Collective Waitlist HERE!

Apply for the VIP Weekend Mastermind HERE!

Join the Audacity Challenge HERE!

Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE!

Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE!

Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES – Operation: Rekindle This B*tch

Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off!

 

FOLLOW

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Chris: @chriswharder

Follow glōci: @getgloci

Do THIS To Go From Breakdown To Breakthrough

Some seasons don’t feel like growth, they feel like everything is falling apart. If 2025 didn’t go according to plan, you’re not broken and you’re not behind. In this episode, we dive into why so many high performers are coming out of this year feeling disoriented, frustrated, or in full-on meltdown mode. We talk about how entire industries, income streams, and identities are melting down right now, why resisting that reality only creates more pain, and how choosing to step into the fire on your own terms gives you first-mover advantage instead of forcing you to rebuild from survival mode later. Get ready to see your meltdown in a completely different way.

 

In this episode you will learn:

  • The glassblower metaphor that explains every major life reset.
  • What really happened for us during the 2008–2009 career and identity collapse.
  • How long real reinvention actually takes.
  • Why resisting change creates more pain.
  • Entire industries and income streams are melting down right now.

 

RESOURCES

Apply for our Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE

Get on the waitlist for the Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE

Join the Audacity Challenge HERE!

Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE!

Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE!

Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES – Operation: Rekindle This B*tch

Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off!

 

FOLLOW

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Chris: @chriswharder

Follow glōci: @getgloci