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977. How To Make Difficult Things Feel Easier

Where are you skipping the opportunity to not only get better at something, but also find your edges? Chris and I have been exploring this question lately, especially as it relates to our workouts. We’ve gotten back into Orangetheory and have been really pushing our physical boundaries. It’s made such a difference in how we view the everyday challenges that come afterwards. Listen in to hear more about how you can shift your baseline and perspective so that the tough stuff gets easier. 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

(0:24) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy. Today, Chris and Lori are talking about how to make tough things easier. 

(0:33) Lori and Chris talk about their recent experience at the auto race track. 

(3:29) Chris asks Lori, “Do you feel like you played all out this time? Or did you leave anything on the track?”

(3:55) Chris talks about how he’s pushing his limits at Orangetheory. 

(5:34) Lori shouts out the sponsor of today’s episode, Soul CBD. 

(7:31) Lori talks about ways that you can expand your capacity by prioritizing yourself, even when it makes other people upset or uncomfortable. 

(9:35) Chris and Lori talk about how pushing their boundaries and setting new standards makes the tough things feel mundane. 

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976. What It Takes To Be A High Performer In Any Area Of Life with Alan Stein Jr.

Alan Stein Jr. understands greatness on a whole different level. He’s a celebrated coach, speaker, and author who spent most of his career working with the world’s most accomplished basketball players. 

In our conversation, we discuss what it takes to perform at a high level and how to fall in love with that process. Alan shares how he radically changed his stress management strategy, including honing in on letting go of things that are out of his control. He highlights the trilogy of behaviors that will sabotage your success and breaks down the two things that will help boost your performance in all areas of your life. 

Alan also leaves us with a practical and thought-provoking challenge一make sure you tag us on Instagram and let us know how you’re going to tackle it!

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

(0:44) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy. Today, Lori is joined by Alan Stein Jr. 

(3:49) Lori asks Alan, “where did that interest in being at the top of your game and sustaining it come from?”

(5:48) Lori asks Alan, “Can you tell me a little bit about the beginning of what drives people compared to what ends up driving them or keeps them going later?”

(11:30) Lori asks Alan, “How do we fall in love with the process of what it is we’re trying to achieve?”

(13:41) Lori asks Alan, “What would you recommend to people who are like, I’m just not loving this process of achieving this thing that they thought was going to be great?”

(18:57) Lori asks Alan, “I’d love to hear the process of working through stagnation.”

(23:55) Lori asks Alan, “What are the first things that you did when you wanted to go to the next level? And did you worry about what your friends or family were going to think of you?”

(29:58) Lori shouts out the sponsor of today’s episode, Issuu. 

(31:49) Lori asks Alan, “What are some different ways that you cope with stress?”

(37:06) Lori asks Alan, “What are some of the things that have helped you manage stress?”

(48:28) Lori asks Alan, “What do you think it takes to be great at something?”

(52:35) Lori asks Alan, “Is there anything that you want to leave us with?”

974. How To Create The Perfect Holiday Season

The holidays are right around the corner, so Chris and I wanted to share how we dial in our schedules and uphold our boundaries so that we actually enjoy the season. We break down what we do before, during, and after the holidays in order to stay on track with our personal and business goals. 

We talk about our simplified approach to gift giving, how we practice the ‘less is more’ philosophy, and explain how we protect our energy around friends and family. Plus, we share our favorite New Year’s Eve tradition and explain how we set ourselves up for success at the beginning of the year. 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

(0:30) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy.

(1:43) Lori talks about how their family’s approach to giving gifts. 

(5:40) Chris shares his pre-holiday advice. 

(7:46) Chris asks Lori, “What’s your advice to have better holidays?” 

(10:25) Chris stresses the importance of picking your battles during family gatherings.  

(11:56) Lori shares her post-holiday ritual.  

(13:25) Chris talks about leaving some runway time between the holidays and getting back into the full swing of your work week.  

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