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919. 2 Things To Immediately Make Your Life Exciting

There are two main tools that I use to lift myself up and change my mood when I’m feeling overwhelmed. I like to make sure that I have scheduled things to look forward to and that I’m prioritizing time with the community that I really want to invest in long term. Lately for me that looks like getting out onto the water and surfing, and spending time with people who make me feel fulfilled, content, and supported. I share examples of activities that you can do to take your stress levels down and create a sense of community. It’s not always easy, but these are the two things that really help me live a more balanced, present life. 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 0:25 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy.

( 1:51 ) Lori says, “I want to talk about this and really try to figure out that magical formula to life where you’re in your sweet spot.”

( 2:46 ) Lori says, “One of those things is to make sure that I have scheduled things to look forward to.”

( 4:59 ) Lori says, “Another one for me is to make sure that I have scheduled time with people and communities that I really want to invest in long term.”

( 7:12 ) Lori says, “The most important thing we can do in our life, no matter how busy you are, is to make sure you’re doing the thing that you want to do that makes you feel fulfilled.”

( 9:53 ) Lori says, “Start small, get that group together, create that community, and you’ll just notice how much better you feel.” 

918. How To Choose To Believe There Is Always A Solution

No matter what you’re facing, what your uphill battle is, or what you’re afraid of, we promise that there are always solutions out there一you just haven’t found them yet. Chris and I have been reflecting on all the times that we thought we had hit a dead end, but came up with a bold alternative by changing up our mindset or environment. We can’t guarantee that you’ll like the solution or it’ll be easy, but you’ll unlock power and resilience that you didn’t even know existed  inside of you. 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 0:26 ) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy.

( 0:35 ) Chris and Lori are reflecting on all the times that they thought we had hit a dead end, and came through with solutions that they couldn’t see at first.

( 1:31 ) Lori says, “We have to step outside of our bubble and we have to go find a new network in order to find these new decisions that we need to be making.”

( 2:41 ) Chris says, “You don’t have to like the solution, you just have to like that it’ll solve your problem.” 

( 3:14 ) Chris shares an example of how this concept is showing up in his food choices right now. 

( 4:35 ) Lori says, “I’m thinking of the times when the solution actually is a pivot, and sometimes that’s the hardest thing to figure out.”

( 5:44 ) Chris says, “Too many people choose unsolved, but comfortable instead of uncomfortable and solved.”

( 6:45 ) Lori and Chris thank listeners for sharing their show on Instagram. 

917. How to Expand Your Network With Kelly Kussman

I’m joined by one of my rockstar Lite Pink investors Kelly Kussman to talk about our exciting collab coming out tomorrow! Kelly is the founder of Cayla Gray, a luxury perfume and candle company, and we worked together to create a scent that captures the feel of drinking an icy glass of Rosé in the sparkling summer sun. When I wear Rosé Summer, I’m immediately transported back to when I was on a yacht on the Amalfi Coast, feeling the breeze in my hair, and smelling the salt in the air. 

Kelly and I dive into our collaboration process and talk about how we worked together to create a visceral experience with Rosé Summer. She breaks down the difference between white labeling, private labeling, and starting a product-based business from scratch. She shares her tips for how to build your audience from the ground up and what her vision is for the future of Cayla Gray. To learn more about her company and shop Rosé Summer, check out @caylagrayco and caylagray.com

 

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Discussion Questions & Episode Highlights

( 1:12 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy.

( 3:45 ) Kelly joins the conversation. 

( 5:07 ) Lori asks Kelly, “Tell me about your company and how you started it.”

( 8:42 ) Lori and Kelly talk about their collab process. 

( 11:09 ) Lori asks Kelly, “Explain your choice on the size of these.”

( 13:45 ) Lori asks Kelly, “Did you jump into this when you were leaving your former career? Did you jump in? Were you all in? Did you have some money that you could kind of rely on or keep going?”

( 17:58 ) Lori shouts out Earn Your Happy sponsor Indeed. 

( 20:27 ) Lori asks Kelly, “For you, was the path clear? Like, my vision is to be in boutiques, or I want to sell online? Or was it always both? And how did you start?”

( 22:51 ) Lori asks Kelly, “You’re mentioning things are changing so quickly and buyers’ habits are changing. What are you kind of noticing right now? And in what way are you kind of planning to pivot?”

( 25:28 ) Lori asks Kelly, “What did we put in here so people can kind of understand what it’s gonna smell like?”

( 28:49 ) Lori asks Kelly, “You had mentioned white labeling and private labeling. Can you just break that down and let people know the opportunities that are out there to collab?” 

( 31:37 ) Lori thanks another sponsor of the show, Gusto

( 33:44 ) Lori asks Kelly, “What are some low barrier of entry things that if people are thinking of creating a product that they could look at?” 

( 37:06 ) Lori asks Kelly, “What are the important factors around building an audience?”

( 40:02 ) Lori asks Kelly, “I think there’s gonna be some people who are not used to the frequency in which you have to really work hard to build your audience. So was this a once a month thing? Or were you really tracking daily or weekly to grow your audience?”

( 41:17 ) Lori asks Kelly, “Is there anything that we have left out that you feel like if we’re talking to somebody who’s kind of stumbling upon this opportunity, or we’re expanding the idea of this opportunity, that they would need to know?”

( 43:58 ) Lori asks listeners to buy Rosé Summer at caylagray.com, and tag @loriharder and @caylagrayco when they’ve purchased it.