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855. How To Find Value In The Challenging Times

Chris and I believe that if we only did things that we wanted to do each day, we would eventually get bored because we would lack purpose and challenge. I’m working really hard on embracing the growth and learning experiences that are being presented to me through Lite Pink, and I wanted to share a little more of that journey with you all today. Chris and I discuss why your ideal days might not actually be what you’ve dreamed they’d be because so much of our happiness comes from getting over obstacles. We talk about how we’re learning to embrace the tough days right now instead of wishing them away and waiting for a life that doesn’t have them. 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 2:22 ) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy.

( 3:05 ) Chris introduces the topic for today’s episode, which is about the dichotomy between what you want your days to look like, and what they actually have to look like in order to one day earn the right for your days to look however you want them to.

( 4:00 ) Lori describes her ideal day. 

( 5:09 ) Chris says, “I think the most disempowering thing when you’ve got big goals is giving in to instant gratification instead of embracing delayed gratification.”

( 6:03 ) Lori says, “I believe that if we only did things that we want to do each day, we would eventually get bored because we would lack purpose and challenge, and happiness actually comes from purpose and challenge.”

( 7:09 ) Lori talks about the EmpowerHER podcast

( 11:02 ) Lori urges listeners to accept that challenges each day are actually quite important, and not to wish them away and wait for a life that doesn’t have them.

( 13:19 ) Chris summarizes the episode. 

( 13:48 ) Text DAILY to 310-421-0416 for Chris’ daily positive money mantra or business perspective messages.

854. How To Grow Your Brick-And-Mortar Business With The Boutique Hub Founder, Ashley Alderson

Ashley Alderson is a mom of 3, wife, founder of the Boutique Hub, cancer survivor and host of the Boutique Chat Podcast. Growing up in rural North Dakota, Ashley loved fashion, but felt like it was reserved for people living in New York or LA. However, she noticed that small boutiques brought in fashion for everyone. They helped her feel independent, beautiful, confident and unique, regardless of where she was living. She then created Boutique Hub to foster a community for boutique owners and provide the latest tools and strategies in the industry to help them grow. 

On today’s episode, we discuss how she overcame her small town girl imposter syndrome to eventually create a network of over 50,000 boutique owners. She shares some of the major roadblocks that she’s had to work through, what keeps her focused and motivated as an entrepreneur and how she’s transformed her mindset around money. We also talk about the upcoming Boutique Summit and what she hopes people will take away from that event.

 

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About Ashley:

Ashley Alderson is a mom of 3, wife, founder of the Boutique Hub, cancer survivor, and host of the Boutique Chat Podcast. The Boutique Hub is a media company focused on connecting and providing the latest tools and strategies to the global boutique community. Grounded in the spirit of community over competition, the movement of The Boutique Hub has landed in the Top 10 Fastest Growing Companies in the Midwest and featured in INC, Forbes, and Entrepreneur. Ashley’s podcast, Boutique Chat, brings listeners conversations about the fashion industry, featuring retailers, boutiques, wholesale brands & vendors and industry insiders to share the proven, juicy secrets that have helped companies rise to the top.

 

EPISODE TIMELINE

( 2:39 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy.

( 3:24 ) Lori introduces today’s guest, Ashley Alderson. 

( 4:30 ) Ashley joins the conversation. 

( 6:12 ) Ashley shares the origin story of Boutique Hub. 

( 10:52 ) Lori asks Ashley about her expectations for launching her business and what her trajectory was. 

( 11:20 ) Ashley breaks down a major mistake she made right at the start of her business. 

( 16:49 ) Lori asks Ashley who Boutique Hub is for. 

( 18:29 ) Lori asks Ashely, “What are some of the main problems and challenges that you see in business, but then also, personally, with the actual owner?”

( 20:25 ) Lori asks Ashley, “How do you help people understand what their skill set is within that business?”

( 22:03 ) Lori talks about today’s sponsor, Fabulous. 

( 24:38 ) Ashley says, “Do what you do best, and hire the rest.”

( 26:00) Ashley shares her strategy for staying organized and focused with all of the different roles she plays. 

( 28:14 ) Ashley breaks down her time blocking technique. 

( 31:27 ) Lori asks Ashley what she wishes more people knew about her.

( 32:15 ) Lori asks Ashley what is something that she wishes more business owners knew.

( 33:47 ) Lori asks Ashley, “Why do you think people need to go for their big dream?”

( 34:39 ) Lori asks Ashley, “How do you start to look at challenges in a way that doesn’t make you feel defeated as a business owner?”

( 36:26 ) Lori asks Ashley, “What is something that you personally are working through right now?”

( 38:21 ) Ashley shares where she finds support in her life. 

( 39:50 ) Ashley details what people can expect from the 2022 Boutique Summit. 

( 41:55 ) Ashley talks about overcoming her judgment and shame around earning money. 

( 44:46 ) Ashley shares some of the topics that are going to be covered at the Boutique Summit.

( 46:53 ) Listeners can get tickets to the summit, visit the website theboutiquehub.com and listen to Boutique Chat. 

( 48:24 ) Lori asks listeners to tag @ajalderson and let her know what their biggest takeaway is from this episode.

853. How To Do “Thought Work” To Attract Positive Outcomes

Whatever you say after “I am” when you wake up in the morning is what you are manifesting for the day, the week, the month and the year. What have you been saying? I am tired? I am annoyed? I am not worthy? When you’re in that negative headspace, you don’t attract success, happiness and growth. If you’ve been listening for a while, you know that mornings can be tough for me, so I’m sharing some helpful ways that I’ve been able to shift my mindset before I even get out of bed. Remember, you are happier, healthier, wealthier and more fit than you were yesterday. You’re going to create miracles today. What’s stopping you? 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 2:45 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy.

( 3:47 ) Lori shares that there were 2.6 million Earn Your Happy downloads globally last month. 

( 6:42 ) Lori says, “I’ve decided that this podcast is a, ‘come with me.’ It’s not me saying, ‘let me show you.’” 

( 7:16 ) Lori tells listeners about today’s sponsor, Indeed. 

( 9:03 ) Lori says, “You never know what your stuff is going to turn out to be. And the only way to know is to hang in there long term, especially if it’s a modality that you love to use or talk on.”

( 9:58 ) Lori introduces the main topic of today’s episode, which is identifying what you’re manifesting with your thoughts. 

( 11:29 ) Lori says, “My work is always, how can I change my vibe?”

( 12:17 ) Lori gives an example of how your thoughts can determine your outcomes. 

( 15:08 ) Lori advises that you only need to be a little more focused on the positive than the negative in order to see results. 

( 15:59 ) Lori leaves listeners with the task of writing their turnaround statements.