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786. Replace Apologies with Abundance Actions

Ladies. You have GOT to stop apologizing for asking for what you want. And you have to stop apologizing for just being yourself. You are who you are, some people aren’t going to be OK with that… and that’s OK! Because the people who are – YOUR people – are going to love you anyways, and they will find you no matter what.

785. Two Ways That We Always Create More Abundance

Some people hate talking about money… but they still wish they had more. Here’s a secret nobody tells you: making more money won’t actually make you feel more abundant. That feeling can exist at any financial level. It’s just a mindset. We’re going to share our top tips for crushing scarcity, and moving into abundance.

Our first tip is this: stop focusing on what you don’t have and take inventory of what you do have. You have four tiers of assets, but many people only look at the first tier: cash on hand. We rely on that number to feel abundant, even though how we feel about that amount may change from day to day. Get off that roller coaster and start focusing on all four tiers:

  • Tier 1: Cash on hand, checking, savings
  • Tier 2: Cash investments, stocks, bonds, real estate equity
  • Tier 3: Reserves that can be tapped into if needed (vehicles, credit, investors, collections)
  • Tier 4: Untapped ideas and potential

Abundance doesn’t come from what you have on hand, but your ability to create money out of thin air. Anytime you’re not feeling abundant, just recognize that you have those untapped talents that people would pay you for that you can turn into real money whenever you need.

Our second tip is to hang out with rich people. You want to be in the room with people who are doing the things that you want. This can mean getting creative – for instance, the Nordstrom worker who’s networking with everyone he helps put himself in the position to be surrounded by people doing the things he wants to be doing. This can also mean springing for something premium outside of your comfort zone that’s going to put you around those people – premium memberships, hair salons, hotels, and more. These are the rooms where the opportunities and ideas are.

These are the best ways to create more abundance in your life. You have to stretch your thinking beyond where you already are and look for the limitless possibilities out there.

784. Heal Your Past and Build Your Future with Lacey Johnson’s Radical Life Renovation

Lacey Johnson is a magical wordsmith. Anytime she speaks it’s like pure honey. She’s been on the show before, but a LOT of life has happened since then. She’s had to deal with some seriously traumatic events, and, thankfully, she’s managed to turn those experiences into something positive. We catch up on where she’s been, what she’s doing now, and her upcoming book which is just going to be LOADED with deep truths.

 

Question Highlights:

  • What’s happened in your life since we last met up?
  • How did you decide to reframe your trauma,and not let it hold you back?
  • Can you tell us about your Radical Life Renovation?
  • What’s a tangible tool people can use to make a difference in their life?
  • How do you create a new belief?
  • What are some of the gifts that have come out of this experience?

 

Guest Bio:

Lacey Johnson is a doting wife and mom, self-belief enthusiast, and multi-passionate, award-winning journalist who sparks conversations that unlock hearts, energize minds, and celebrate the human experience. Having worked with a fascinating range of famed entrepreneurs, spiritual thought leaders, and top mental health professionals (including Deepak Chopra, Daymond John, Gabby Bernstein, and Dr. Caroline Leaf), her words can be read in a collective of top magazines and media sources including Oprah.com, Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, POPSUGAR, O, The Oprah Magazine, Woman’s Day and more – many of which have been syndicated by Apple News, MSN, and Yahoo! millions of times.

With a deep intrigue for human beings, and a fiery passion for smacking her readers in the face with comfort and truth, she calls upon her vault of compelling experiences such as a family-wide tragedy in early childhood, life-long grief, domestic violence in young adulthood, infertility, a collective of personal and professional heartbreaks, and a near-death experience a year ago. Her writing and bold reporting unlock possibility and invite epiphany. While in the process of finishing a massive book project about transforming pain and setbacks into providence and power, she recently released a digital workbook as a prelude, entitled The Radical Life Renovation: A Guided Program to Anchor Joy, Explode with Confidence and Redesign Your Future. It’s garnering rave reviews, grateful shares, and tearful praise from readers.