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964. Cara Alwill On Approaching Relationships As A High-Achieving Woman

All my high-achieving single ladies out there, this one is for you! I’m joined by Cara Alwill, bestselling author and host of the top-rated podcast, Style Your Mind, to discuss why so many successful women have trouble dating. Cara sheds light on what’s happening in the dating scene and how women can approach it differently to have fun with it again. 

We dig deep into why you need to deprogram all the unsolicited advice out there and start to follow your intuition instead. I also share my perspective about expanding and overcoming challenges in relationships as someone who has been married for almost 20 years. 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

(1:01) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy. Lori is joined by Cara Alwill on today’s episode. 

(4:56) Cara introduces the topic of today’s episode: dating and relationships as a successful woman. 

(6:14) Lori asks Cara, “Why do so many total package women struggle in finding love?”

(11:50) Lori asks Cara, “I’ve had to learn how to start seeing and appreciating the new roles that Chris and I had both stepped into. What do we do in that case?”

(19:39) Lori shouts out Indeed for sponsoring today’s episode. 

(25:05) Cara says, “My belief is that you cannot be an expert in relationships because the only two people that know what goes on inside of a relationship are those two people.”

(28:42) Lori asks Cara, “Do you think that sometimes we’re writing people off way too soon?”

(33:19) Lori asks Cara, “What are you open to in a relationship that you weren’t prior open to?”

(34:16) Lori asks Cara, “Where have you found a natural groove?”

(35:43) Lori shouts out Issuu for sponsoring today’s episode. 

(37:42) Lori aska Cara, “What is the way to start calling in the person or relationship that you want?”

(46:24) Cara says, “One of my favorite mantras when it comes to relationships and dating is: things can change in an instant.” 

(50:30) Lori asks Cara, “Any last words?”

(51:45) Lori asks listeners to tag @thechampagnediet and @loriharder to let them know their biggest takeaways from this episode. 

963. BIG ANNOUNCEMENT! (And Some Reflections On How Far I’ve Come)

I have a major milestone to share with you all about the show! Earn Your Happy is now part of Brendon Burchard’s Growth Day Podcast Network and it’s amazing what a full-circle moment this is for me. I’m bringing you behind the scenes and explaining how this deal happened, what it means for the future of this podcast, and where you can tune into a new monthly course that I’m going to be involved in. Remember, if you take that first step to building what you wish existed today, the possibilities and opportunities for success are limitless.

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 0:19 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy. Today, Lori is talking about her decision to join the Growth Day Podcast Network.

( 1:56 ) Lori talks about her connection to the founder of the network, Brendon Burchard.  

( 3:25 ) Lori shouts out the sponsor of today’s episode, Soul CBD. 

( 6:10 ) Lori announces that she’ll be teaching monthly on the Growth Day app. 

( 8:21 ) Lori says, “Think of something right now in your life, a ‘wouldn’t it be cool if this existed?’ And why not see if you can create it.”

962. Harness Your Confidence By Leaning Into Your Skillsets

Chris and I are discussing where our confidence and motivation stem from, and our top tips for creating really strong networking relationships. We get into the importance of expanding your skillset, keeping promises to yourself, and fulfilling your purpose. We’re all about unapologetically chasing our dreams and creating generational wealth, which requires a strong mindset and a lot of willpower to go against the grain. We also discuss the role that masterminds have played in our network-building strategy and reflect on some of our past experiences in those rooms. 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 0:25 ) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy.

( 0:29 ) Chris and Lori chat about their time in New York City. 

( 3:49 ) Lori asks Chris, “Where does your confidence come from?”

( 6:38 ) Lori asks Chris, “Where does your motivation come from?”

( 11:45 ) Lori asks Chris, “What do you think the secret is to creating really good networking relationships?”

( 16:07 ) If you’re gonna make more than $500,000 next year, then go to chrisharder.me/mastermind and fill out that application right away!