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891. Comfort Has Consequences, Here’s Why

There’s a balance between coasting and enjoying life, but also doing things that stretch you and get you out of your comfort zone. Chris and I talk about some ways that we’ve been switching up our energy, doing things that make us grow, and setting us up for success when it comes to reaching our goals. We discuss the difference between intentional and unintentional discomforts, and what we do to stay proactive about unintentional discomforts like burnout and weight gain. Plus, Chris shares details about his newest course that’s going to help support you in this transitional economy that we’re in right now. 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 0:21 ) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy.

( 2:18 ) Lori asks Chris, “What was the best part of your trip?” 

( 3:49 ) Lori says, “Today, we are talking about the fact that comfort has consequences.”

( 6:25 ) Lori and Chris talk about how their podcasts keep them uncomfortable. 

( 8:40 ) Chris explains the difference between intentional and unintentional discomfort. 

( 10:27 ) Lori shares examples of how to start with small steps and goals. 

( 12:46 ) Chris talks about choosing between short term pleasure and long term happiness.

( 17:09 ) Chris shares details about his upcoming course. 

( 18:09 ) Text BULLETPROOF TO 310-421-0416 to get on the VIP early access list to Chris’ new course. 

890. Brittany Merrill Of Skrewball Whiskey On Bringing Your Vision To Life

Connecting with other women in the alcoholic beverage space is so exciting for me, and I can’t wait for you to hear today’s conversation with Brittany Merrill Yeng, the co-founder and Managing Partner of Skrewball Peanut Butter Whiskey. We talk all about how she launched this brand with her husband, her approach to scaling, and what it’s like to build business relationships. Brittany shares how she’s learned to articulate her vision and point of view, even when people around her have doubts. She has a rock-solid mindset that has kept her focused on the path forward and grounded in her beliefs that everything happens for a reason. Listen in to hear more about how Brittany runs one of the fastest-growing spirit companies! 

 

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About Brittany:

Spearheading the fastest market rollout in the history of the spirits industry, Brittany Yeng, co-founder and managing partner of Skrewball Peanut Butter Whiskey, is a chemist, turned lawyer, turned spirits brand owner. Yeng was one to watch as she took her husband’s wacky idea of combining peanut butter and whiskey and turned it into a shelf-stable product and Hollywood favorite that reached national distribution in just one short year. An industry disruptor and a woman making waves in a male dominated industry, she is a highly educated woman juggling parenting while running a leading spirits company, creating a brand that goes beyond just whiskey. Skrewball is a lifestyle that is welcoming to all manner of weirdo, maverick and misfit that brings people together in a world of uncertainty. When Yeng isn’t taking over the spirits industry one bottle at a time, she enjoys spending time with her daughters and getting off the grid while traveling to far remote places with her family.

Discussion Questions & Episode Highlights

( 1:00 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy. Today, Lori is joined by Brittany Merrill Yeng. 

( 3:59 ) Brittany joins the conversation. 

( 4:58 ) Lori asks Brittany, “Tell me a little bit about the company that you started and why you started it.”

( 7:00 ) Lori asks Brittany, “What did you sit down and put together for, for example, your pitch deck to convince other people of this opportunity?”

( 9:32 ) Lori asks Brittany, “What were your thoughts on how to get this out? What were the modalities that you already kind of had experience within? And then what were some that you knew you were going to have to go into and how did you get into them?” 

( 12:40 ) Lori asks Brittany, “If you could go back to Brittany when you were starting this out, what’s your first business advice?”

( 15:45 ) Lori talks about this episode’s sponsor, Indeed. 

( 17:22 ) Lori asks Brittany, “What was the thought around, we can maintain this price and it’s going to work for people?”

( 19:40 ) Lori asks Brittany what her R&D experience has been like. 

( 21:58 ) Lori asks Brittany, “What were your thoughts around when you were thinking about people and market share of how many customers that you need to feel like this was a success?”

( 24:47 ) Lori asks Brittany, “Who did you have? Was it your husband? Did you run in a circle who believed in you and kind of pumped you back up after you would have those days where you’re like, I don’t know, maybe this is a bad idea?”

( 27:58 ) Lori shouts out another sponsor, Storyworth. 

( 30:17 ) Lori asks Brittany, “What is that voice in your head that keeps you going?”

( 32:39 ) Lori asks Brittany, “Can you tell me about just how you keep a positive attitude about the founder, the CEO, or the leader that you are, even when you’re feeling like every week there’s a big mistake every day?”

( 35:20 ) Lori asks Brittany, “I’m curious if you had to learn how to compartmentalize things that happened in your company and separate your emotions a little bit more than your husband?”

( 37:21 ) Lori asks Brittany, “How do you like to grow yourselves personally? And then how do you like to go discover how to grow the business?”

( 38:37 ) Lori asks Brittany, “When you are growing your team, number one, did you work with anyone to help you grow it? Number two, did you know how you were going to grow it?” 

( 39:55 ) Lori asks Brittany, “How have you made sure to grow your network or get into different networks or email that you want to connect with, or ask questions or things like that?”

( 42:32 ) Lori asks Brittany, “Can you tell me a little bit about what your kind of daily workflow looks like?”

( 43:59 ) Lori asks Brittany, “Tell me what your zone of genius is, and then what you absolutely could not wait to get out of because you felt terrible at it.”

( 45:53 ) Lori asks Brittany what she and her husband dream about for the future of the company. 

( 47:59 ) Skrewball Whiskey is available at major alcohol retailers, and skrewballwhiskey.com

( 48:34 ) Listeners can tag @brittanymerrillyeng, @skrewballwhiskey, and @loriharder and share what their biggest takeaway was.

889. How To Take Quantum Leaps By Full Immersion

I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve listened to The Big Leap audiobook, but something new really sticks out to me each time I go back to it. I’ve been thinking a lot about Gay Hendricks’ concept of ‘Upper Limiting’ when you are about to step a giant step into something bigger. That’s when all of the inner saboteurs, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs come back in. I’ve realized that in order to quiet those voices, I need to fully immerse myself in my goal. I share how this idea has shown up in my religious childhood, my fitness competition years, my time in network marketing, and now as I’m getting ready to launch Lite Pink. I talk about ways that I’ve safe-guarded myself to stay on track and build the mental strength that it takes to make those quantum leaps to my dreams. 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 0:34 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy.

( 1:10 ) Today’s topic is all about how to take quantum leaps by becoming fully immersed in your goals. 

( 3:05 ) Lori says, “Your biggest purpose will always be in front of you.”

( 3:35 ) Lori talks about being fully immersed in her religion as a child. 

( 5:42 ) Lori asks, “Are you creating an environment where you are so fully emerged, like completely head to toe from day to day where you have these points in your life and you are being pulled back in and making sure that there is no outside distractions?”

( 7:07 ) Lori uses the example of staying on track with your diet by not self-sabotaging and bringing food into your home that doesn’t align with your goals. 

( 10:50 ) Lori talks about being fully immersed in her network marketing career. 

( 13:22 ) Lori brings up how MMA fighters study their opponents and how that concept can be used for studying your inner saboteur. 

( 14:24 ) Lori asks, “Where do you need to break a pattern? Where do you need to break a belief? And where can you fully immerse yourself into the things that really lights you up?”