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852. Don’t Wait For Retirement To Make Memories

Why are you waiting to make the memories? Chris and I had the opportunity to buy our dream legacy lake property in Door County, Wisconsin, and even though we weren’t really in the market, we went for it because we want to start making amazing summer memories with our friends and family as soon as possible. Today, we’re sharing why we’re choosing to live a life of abundance today instead of waiting around for retirement. Listen in to hear more of our conversation about enjoying the moment while growing and living a bucket list type of life. 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 2:23 ) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of Earn Your Happy.

( 5:44 ) Chris and Lori share that they bought their dream lake house in Wisconsin. 

( 7:05 ) Lori and Chris talk about making memories on the lake as kids. 

( 8:58 ) Lori says that making memories is the most important thing for them. 

( 12:07 ) Chris says, “Choice is the best thing that money can buy.”

( 13:59 ) Lori says, “You have to look around at the landscape right now and realize that we are so blessed still in this country and to utilize this incredible freedom.”

( 15:33 ) Lori says, “You don’t need means to make memories.”

( 16:44 ) Chris says, “Stop waiting to build the life that you want.”

( 18:02 ) Text DAILY to 310-421-0416 to get daily Money Mantras to boost your day.

851. Kacia Fitzgerald On Her Theory About Going from Good to Great

Kacia Fitzgerald is the host of the podcast EmpowerHer and founder and CEO of She Goes Co., her business that provides tools for women starting a business or podcast. We discuss how to stay motivated and confident when you’re building a business, how she supports herself during times of uncertainty and the magic of vulnerability. Kacia shares her favorite habit-stacking trick and we talk about the power of counting your small wins daily. 

Kacia breaks down the concept of benefit extension, which is questioning who’s going to benefit as a byproduct of you going for your dream and who’s going to be hurt if you don’t. We also connect on our belief that the qualification season is so crucial, even if it can feel slow and uncomfortable. Listen in to hear more of our conversation about how to launch yourself from good to great. Tune in today, wherever you get your podcasts!

 

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About Kacia:

Kacia Fitzgerald is a multi-passionate entrepreneur, speaker and podcaster who is on a mission to help women unapologetically share their voice and message with the world. 

She’s found that what’s often holding women back are the thoughts that they think about who they are and what they are capable of. She takes her knowledge from working with hundreds of entrepreneurs over the years, paired with her high energy bubbly personality and a “come with me, let’s figure this out together” approach to light a fire under their booty to get out of their own way and just go!

 

EPISODE TIMELINE

( 2:44 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy.

( 2:50 ) Lori gives some background on today’s guest, Kacia Fitzgerald. 

( 4:12 ) Kacia joins the conversation. 

( 5:10 ) Lori asks Kacia to share what she’s currently working on and how she got there. 

( 7:54 ) Lori asks Kacia about how she learned to compartmentalize the back and forth of the emotions, and the the highs and lows of running a business?”

( 9:12 ) Kacia talks about common challenges that she sees with her podcasting clients scaling. 

( 11:04 ) Lori says, “The qualification period is so incredibly important.”

( 13:28 ) Kacia poses the question, “What if you just decided that it’s your responsibility as a human being to step into what you feel called to do so you can be living, breathing proof of what’s possible for another person?”

( 14:24 ) Lori and Kacia talk about the power of being vulnerable, especially as podcasters. 

( 18:25 ) Lori and Kacia discuss Kacia’s theory about how to go from good to great. 

( 20:43 ) Kacia brings up the question, “What if this discomfort actually meant that I’m supposed to take action?”

( 23:00 ) Kacia explains what benefit extension is. 

( 24:52 ) Lori thanks today’s sponsor, ISSUU. 

( 26:37 ) Lori says, “Your vision is not big enough until you tie people into it.”

( 28:20 ) Lori describes what keeps her motivated to keep going with Lite Pink. 

( 29:51 ) Lori asks Kacia her response when people ask her “when is enough enough?” and “why can’t you just be happy?”

( 31:28 ) Kacia says, “You can be curious about people’s perspective, but you still can only take advice from people that are living lives that you want to actually be living.”

( 34:40 ) Lori asks Kacia, “When you talk about anxiety, can you share a little bit about what that feels like and how you’ve been managing that?”

( 36:06 ) Kacia shares two ways that she helps calm her racing thoughts. 

( 38:24 ) Lori asks Kacia, “What do you do to support yourself mentally, emotionally, physically, in your business in your life around taking bigger risks?”

( 39:24 ) Kacia explains how she practices habit stacking. 

( 40:52 ) Kacia talks about why you need to take an action step towards your goal everyday. 

( 44:48 ) Kacia and Lori share ways to build confidence. 

( 49:11 ) Text EVENT to 512-548-2728 for details about Kacia’s upcoming event.

( 50:43 ) Listen to EmpowerHER and follow Kacia @kacia.fitzgerald

( 51:12 ) Listeners can tag @loriharder and @kacia.fitzgerald and let them know what their biggest takeaway was from this episode.

850. Cross Off Your To-Do List With These Tips

If you’re anything like me, your to-do list can seem never ending. Today, I’m sharing a few things that I’ve been doing to help me to dial it in and know what really needs to get done during the week. I break my lists down into a ‘later list’ and a ‘now list,’ which has been such a game changer for staying focused and making sure that I’m prioritizing what actually needs to get done. I also want to give you the space to check in with yourself during this episode and find out what support looks like for your entrepreneur soul. I share some examples of how I’ve been doing that lately and my plans for finding more joy in my week. 

 

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Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions

( 2:19 ) Welcome back to Earn Your Happy.

( 2:39 ) Lori introduces today’s topic, organizing your to-do lists. 

( 3:49 ) Lori says, “I also just want to take a second to really check in with your soul.”

( 5:31 ) Lori gives examples of how she supports her entrepreneur soul. 

( 7:03 ) Lori shares what she learned about herself from surfing. 

( 9:41 ) Lori says, “We get to really choose how we participate in this world and how we look at it.”

( 10:37 ) Lori will be at the 2022 Boutique Summit in Dallas on March 20th-21st.

( 10:54 ) Lori introduces the concept of a ‘later list.’

( 12:31 ) Lori explains why you need to check the hard things off the list first. 

( 13:46 ) Listeners can tag @loriharder and let her know what their takeaway is from this episode.